For all the ladies out there who are considering marrying someone with children - DON'T. For the most part, not always, but for the most part step-children are a sure fire way to:
- have a heart attack/stroke
- break up/divorce
- go to prison for life for murder
In my view, unless the kids are infants (3 weeks or less), or grown and living in another country, or on Mars, RUN!
The man you are marrying will usually have guilt issues for ending up divorced from the kids' mother. These guilt issues will ruin the kids, you, anyone who loves you/care about you, your relationship. It is invariably a toxic situation.
The kids usually never cease from wishing their parents would get back together, and they end up resenting YOU. Not always of course - there are exceptions. But for the most part, you can't win.
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